Being a Mother

Just a quick thought.  I have to say that while I love being a mother, I am constantly wondering how do I balance being a good mother and being a good partner?  I hate to see Thomas in so much pain, I can't do anything about it.  I want to help, yet, what can I do to take the pain away???  I am worried about him, and I feel like while I worry, I am not able to give Piper my all my attention.  I am torn, which makes me sad... I want to be the best at everything... How do I do that?  How do I balance my time with the people that I love the most...